Is the silent treatment really the way to go?
I'm hurt and pissed off right now. There are people that I though were friends, but for some reason now ignore my texts and emails. I have asked if there was something that I did to upset them. I have apologized for any unintentional hurt or action. Yet I get no response. Why is that? I have some wonderful friends yet the bad apples seem to really get under my skin. Since these few people can't seem to communicate if there is an issue maybe I should take the stance that they just aren't worth of MY friendship. It's their loss. If only I could convince myself that I am wasting energy thinking about them. I have a very sincere friendship to offer, but I guess that is not why they want. Well ya know, if or when they try to respond to me it's a little too late. Time to weed out the good from the bad!
Monday, September 28, 2009
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I have learned that if you have just 1 or 2 very good friends that are close to you, care about you and that you can trust you are blessed. Don't worry about pleasing everyone. It's not worth it.
JJ, I am sorry to learn that you feel betrayed by people you had felt were close to you, but I take it that the problem, serious as it is to you, is extraneous to your blog.
I would like you to know that the followers of your blog have sorely missed its regular continuation during this year. While it ran it was of the highest quality, inspiring as you know, about dozen stories that I posted as comments, some of which you raised to the blog itself.
You have wonderful taste in men and have found amazingly arousing representatives of different types. So, if you have the stamina to carry on I am sure that many guys besides me would be relieved and delighted. You have brought more enjoyment to more men than you know. Thanks a million.
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